As many on you know, this past Saturday I brought my Mom to the emergency department at The Miriam Hospital where she was admitted for a heart attack and other complications. She made great progress in a few days. With tests revealing the best case scenarios, we were beginning to talk about her being discharged. However on Tuesday she faced a set back. When I arrived to visit her the nurse told me she had a stroke and was being transferred to RI Hospital. To say things got scary would be an understatement. I know many of you have lived through this uncertainty yourselves, and know exactly what I mean. Once again, Kerry got lucky. The stroke was mild with almost no deficits, just some slight aphasic moments. As I write this, on Thursday morning, she and I are hanging out in her hospital room waiting for the paperwork to be signed for her discharge home. It all feels like nothing short of miraculous.
On behalf of our family thank you so much for reaching out. Your prayers and notes have been welcome gifts of support and encouragement over these recent days. We’ve been able to stay hopeful and persevere through this crisis moment thanks in no small part to the tremendous network of support and prayers. By the way, Mom is chiming in to make sure I tell you how thankful she is.
Kerry still has a long road of recovery ahead as a cardiac and neurology patient. These early days are crucial and she will require lots of support. I’m grateful to my Aunts, her sisters, who have been in town since Monday and are sticking around to help with this first phase of recovery. I offer my thanks to Bishop Knisely who has been in regular contact checking in, offering prayer, and standing ready to help however he can, and to my clergy colleagues who have offered to be on call for parish emergencies and other situations to make sure our parish is cared for, while allowing me the space to be present with my family and rest as I can.
Over the next few weeks I will probably be working remotely a bit more than usual so I can be with my Mom. I will remain reachable by email and cell phone, and if not myself, someone will always be available for pastoral emergencies.
Many of you have asked what you can do to support us during this time. Your prayers remain coveted. In a couple of weeks I’m sure more things will emerge. Mom has already talked about what great cooks you all are.
Thank you again for your support and prayers. I’ll continue to keep you updated as the journey continues. I am incredibly lucky to be priest in such a wonderful community.